Is it possible to have an amicable divorce?

Going through a divorce or separation is an incredibly difficult time, and many people are naturally concerned about the emotional and financial toll it can take, especially when there are children involved.

While sometimes it is necessary to involve the family courts, it is often not in anyone’s best interests to do this, and instead to consider an alternative route – one that focuses on being open, communicative and transparent.

What are the alternatives to court when it comes to divorce?

Mediation

Here, a couple has the opportunity to discuss issues arising from their separation with the help of a mediator. Family mediators act impartially and do not seek to apportion blame, but instead help you to reach an agreement.

One Couple One Lawyer

Couples appoint one lawyer between them to handle all aspects of their divorce, including child and financial arrangements. This can make the process faster and more cost effective.

Collaborative Law

Discussions take place sitting round the table with each party having their own collaborative lawyer at the meetings. The lawyers work together to try and help you reach a solution.

Arbitration

This is where a specially trained arbitrator is appointed to hear evidence from both sides and will then arbitrate the decision. This approach does involve an additional cost, but it is often less expensive than court proceedings.

It is also a much quicker process than going to court.

What is the best approach?

The options listed above often work really well, even in contentious situations. There is no one size fits all approach. Every couple and every situation is different, and it is really important to get the right advice and support in place so that you can choose the approach which best suits the specific needs of you and your family.

Please get in touch with our Family team if we can help you.

This article first appeared in Surrey Homes Magazine.